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           His sickness was validated by three neurologists, at the age of
           48, not long after he had started his PhD. Yet, he did think of
           giving up his childhood dream of becoming a ‘Doctor’. "After a
           few months, I have changed my mind. I need to show them that the
           sickness does not matter," Dr Arul said.

           Despite the trials and tribulations, Dr Arul completed his PhD
           in two and a half years. Recalling the journey of fighting off
           his sickness for 12 years, Dr Arul said that his medication dose
           increased dramatically within the first two years in order to
           control his symptoms. Currently Dr Arul is coping well with
           his  sickness,  thanks  to  the  latest  treatment  –  Deep  Brain
           Stimulation.
                                                                    Dr Arulselvan completed his
                                                                   master in Bagan Serai & PhD in
                                                                    Tamil Classical Literature.
           Dr Arul accepted his sickness as a part of his life
           process. “This is God’s wish,” he said. It is possible
           that it is the reason he is able to relate his story in
           a  calm  demeanour.  Meanwhile,  it  was  also  his
           responsibility as a father that pushed him to face
           his sickness bravely. “My kids are still small, I need
           to  take  care  of  them.”  Other  than  his  beloved
           daughters,  his  students  need  him  too.  Dr  Arul
           said that he is an educator, in other words, a role
           model to others. Dr Arul hopes to inspire people  Dr Arulselvan Raju with his students
           struggling in their life to think positively, and the
           easiest  way  to  start  off  is  to  use  fewer  negative
           words.




        “                                               Online interview session with Dr Arulselvan


           There is no point to stay put and do nothing about it, life still goes on.  Be open-minded and embrace
           challenges. Here I am giving my life, as an example.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  - Dr Arulselvan Raju














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