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V O I C E S   O F   T H E   Y O U N G E R   G E N E R A T I O N


                         Interviewers of  Madam Emi Lagunay




             Ang Hui Tian, Year 1
                                   I had changed my impression about older adults who I thought would
                                   be stern and stubborn. As for some older people, talking about personal
                                   matters might not come easily. They may have never talked about how
                                   they  feel  and  what  they  have  sacrificed  for  their  life  now.  On  the
                                   contrary, Madam Emi was very willing to share her story and gave us
                                   some useful advice from her past experience. She is such an optimist
                                   who  always  strives  for  a  better  life  instead  of  grumbling  about  the
                                   difficulties.  She  reminded  me  that  we  should  not  take  anything  for
                                   granted but always be grateful for what we have now. She also made me
                                   realise that we should always think positively towards the challenges so
             Sometimes you will never  that we are ready to adapt to changes in life.
            know the value of a moment,
            until it becomes a memory.
                               H U I   T I A N ' S   A D V I C E   T O   O T H E R   Y O U N G   P E O P L E
              Always be patient and caring for the older adults. Put yourself in their shoes as we will be the same with them
              in one day. People always say that there is a barrier between youngsters and older adults, but I think the
              barrier is there for us to learn from each other and improve our weaknesses. Also, we should always have a
              positive  attitude  towards  every  obstacle,  try  to  adapt  ourselves  to  unpleasant  situations  and  hoping  for  a
              favorable outcome, focus on good things and do not be scared to fail.



             Chen Jia Huey, Year 1
                                   I was reminded to always be grateful for the things we have in our life.
                                   Madam Emi portrayed a very positive and cheerful attitude towards life
                                   even  though  the  pandemic  had  quite  an  impact  on  her  job  and  her
                                   monthly income. She is one of the strongest older adults I’ve ever met.
                                   Madam  Emi  made  me  understand  better  that  happiness  comes  from
                                   within us, it is we who determine how our life turns out to be. If we
                                   always think negative thoughts, our life will no doubt be sad and dull as
                                   we only focus on the ‘not so good’ things in life. On the other hand, if we
                                   learn to nurture a positive mindset, our life will turn out to be brighter
                                   and happier despite the hardships that we may face.
             Storms don’t last forever,
            continue to stand strong and
               this too shall pass.
                               J I A   H U E Y ' S   A D V I C E   T O   O T H E R   Y O U N G   P E O P L E
              I hope the younger generation can be more patient and understanding when interacting with older adults. Try
              to spend more time talking to them so that they feel more treasured and loved.












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